Friday, May 27, 2011
The Nubile's: Marriage
The Nubile's: Marriage: "A few weeks ago I was on Twitter and I saw a post that hit me hard. Maybe I took it wrong I don't know. But a lady wrote that she didn't s..."
Marriage
A few weeks ago I was on Twitter and I saw a post that hit me hard. Maybe I took it wrong I don't know. But a lady wrote that she didn't see the point in getting married when all she sees is people getting hurt through divorce. Then to see someone I am close to agree with her made me sad. Yes, there is a high statistic for divorce but sometimes I think people rush into it faster than they should, not always but sometime.
My hubby and I have been married for going on 9 years, and I have loved every minute of it. Has it always been easy no, but we have become stronger through these difficult moments. We have an amazing marriage and yes we have to work at it, it isn't all pie in sky all the time.
I think often times people go into marriage thinking it is going to be a cake walk and when they find out that it isn't they high tail it outta there. A marriage takes work and committment from both sides.
Our pre-marital counselor told us that you have to do whatever it takes to keep the flame alive in your relationship. Whether that is listening to her talk every once in awhile or swinging from a chandelier you do whatever it takes. Because a marriage shouldn't be just a flame it should be a full blown fire that you should keep alive.
I love my husband more now than I did when we got married, and thats because we do whatever it takes to keep our fire alive. But most important is we keep Christ as the center of our marriage. Because without Him we wouldn't have made it this far.
This has been on my heart for awhile and I thought I would share it with you all!!!
My hubby and I have been married for going on 9 years, and I have loved every minute of it. Has it always been easy no, but we have become stronger through these difficult moments. We have an amazing marriage and yes we have to work at it, it isn't all pie in sky all the time.
I think often times people go into marriage thinking it is going to be a cake walk and when they find out that it isn't they high tail it outta there. A marriage takes work and committment from both sides.
Our pre-marital counselor told us that you have to do whatever it takes to keep the flame alive in your relationship. Whether that is listening to her talk every once in awhile or swinging from a chandelier you do whatever it takes. Because a marriage shouldn't be just a flame it should be a full blown fire that you should keep alive.
I love my husband more now than I did when we got married, and thats because we do whatever it takes to keep our fire alive. But most important is we keep Christ as the center of our marriage. Because without Him we wouldn't have made it this far.
This has been on my heart for awhile and I thought I would share it with you all!!!
Thursday, May 26, 2011
The Nubile's: Where has the time gone!!!
The Nubile's: Where has the time gone!!!: "Wow, I did not know that it had been so long since my last post!!! Since my last post we've welcomed our third baby into the family!!! A d..."
Where has the time gone!!!
Wow, I did not know that it had been so long since my last post!!! Since my last post we've welcomed our third baby into the family!!! A daughter Danielle Pearl!! She is a momma's girl and is going to be turning 2 this August! She is very tall for her age and a lot of people think that she is well over 2, but I believe she is going to be a volleyball player with her height!!
Bailey, is as energetic as ever. She still had the super curly hair like her mom, and loves to wrestly with her daddy. However, if you say you are going to wrestle you better be ready, because she doesn't hold anything back. She is 4 now and a ball of energy. If we let her she would live outside rain or shine!!!
Eddie, is 6 now and started Kindergarten this last year. I can't believe my oldest is already in school. He loves it, but he can be handful because he likes to help everyone else and that gets him in trouble sometimes. He is also a perfectionist and has a hard time moving on, when something isn't up to his perfection!!! He went through a rough patch about a month ago, but we kept talking to him and he is back to his normal self.
Tony still works at the Kroc Center in CDA, ID and loves it because he gets to use his hands and not sit behind a desk all day. He has a great group of guys that he works with and has many opportunities to witness and mentor his staff!! He also coached JV Highschool Girls basketball this last year and loved it. His girls only lost 4 times, and he was very proud of them.
Hmm, as for me, I stay home with the kids!! Some days are harder than others but I love it. I am trying hard to get back in shape after having 3 babies and found this great company called Advocare who helps in weight loss, energy boost, and muscle gain, and much more. I have done the 10 day Cleanse and it is amazing. For 10 days you stick to the plan, and it does a pretty amazing cleanse of your body. I hope that makes since. I also use a product called Catalyst and it is for muscle tone, strength and energy. They have so many wonderful products!!!
As a family we are doing wonderful!!! We love to go out do things as a family and it is so much fun!!! God has been so awesome to our family!!!
Bailey, is as energetic as ever. She still had the super curly hair like her mom, and loves to wrestly with her daddy. However, if you say you are going to wrestle you better be ready, because she doesn't hold anything back. She is 4 now and a ball of energy. If we let her she would live outside rain or shine!!!
Eddie, is 6 now and started Kindergarten this last year. I can't believe my oldest is already in school. He loves it, but he can be handful because he likes to help everyone else and that gets him in trouble sometimes. He is also a perfectionist and has a hard time moving on, when something isn't up to his perfection!!! He went through a rough patch about a month ago, but we kept talking to him and he is back to his normal self.
Tony still works at the Kroc Center in CDA, ID and loves it because he gets to use his hands and not sit behind a desk all day. He has a great group of guys that he works with and has many opportunities to witness and mentor his staff!! He also coached JV Highschool Girls basketball this last year and loved it. His girls only lost 4 times, and he was very proud of them.
Hmm, as for me, I stay home with the kids!! Some days are harder than others but I love it. I am trying hard to get back in shape after having 3 babies and found this great company called Advocare who helps in weight loss, energy boost, and muscle gain, and much more. I have done the 10 day Cleanse and it is amazing. For 10 days you stick to the plan, and it does a pretty amazing cleanse of your body. I hope that makes since. I also use a product called Catalyst and it is for muscle tone, strength and energy. They have so many wonderful products!!!
As a family we are doing wonderful!!! We love to go out do things as a family and it is so much fun!!! God has been so awesome to our family!!!
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